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Ep. 563 Death Wings Project: Art and Storytelling for Loss and Grief with Bess Welden and Laura Cleminson

Learn how a creative art project can help foster conversations about loss and grief and how a playwright and an end-of-life doula collaborated to develop it.

About the guests:

My guests this week are Bess Welden a playwright who wrote the play Death Wings and Laura Cleminson an end-of-life doula and the founder of Pre-Dead Social Club. Together they have developed the Death Wings Project and Toolkit to invite people to come together in community and foster open conversations about loss and grief. They share how art-making and storytelling are used in their workshops to help people navigate loss together through creativity. Learn more at the following websites:

In this episode:

  • How Laura was inspired to become an end-of-life doula
  • What inspired Bess to create the play Death Wings and to make her first pair of Death Wings
  • How Laura and Bess were inspired to work together on this project
  • What Death Wings are and how they are constructed
  • How the creation of Death Wings help people create meaning and memories of their loved ones
  • Why “putting our hands into grief” allows us to open to it
  • How Death Wings might be used in schools to help children with grief
  • The value of rituals for grief
  • You don’t have to be an artist or crafter to participate in this project
  • Creativity as an opportunity to open conversation about the end of life
  • Using Death Wings as a gift for someone experiencing grief
  • How to host a Death Wings workshop in your own community

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Ep. 555 Funeral Photography as an Act of Service and Love with Nell Aburto

Learn about the value of preserving photographic memories of funeral services for grief and bereavement.

About my guest:

Today’s guest is Nell Aburto, a portrait photographer based in Minneapolis MN who offers funeral and memorial photography, which is largely unheard of in this industry. She discusses why people might want to consider hiring a photographer for a funeral service, the benefits of having a photographic record of such a celebration, and what it’s like to work in this profession. Learn more at her website:

mnfuneralphotography.com

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In this episode:

  • How Nell was inspired to specialize in funeral photography
  • Why it’s nearly impossible for family members to take photographs of a funeral or memorial service
  • How it is still considered taboo by some people to take photos at funerals
  • The benefits she experiences from this work
  • How photographs are an important part of family history
  • How funeral photography can help us normalize death as part of life
  • Why funerals can be a time of transformation and healing

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Ep. 504 The Ash Rose: Transforming Grief into Beauty with Ian McCartor

Learn about making beautiful memorial art as way of navigating grief and honoring loved ones.

“Ian McCartor, hospice nurse and founder of The Ash Rose project, smiling in a natural setting, wearing a dark shirt.”

My guest Ian McCartor is a hospice nurse, musician, and founder of The Ash Rose, a project that transforms the ashes of loved ones into beautiful rose-shaped keepsakes. In this episode, Ian shares how his work helps individuals navigate grief by creating tangible symbols of remembrance and healing. Ian shares his journey from hospice care to creating tangible symbols of remembrance, highlighting how art and creativity can aid in the grieving process. He delves into the inspiration behind The Ash Rose, the impact it has had on individuals coping with loss, and the broader implications of integrating beauty into end-of-life rituals. Learn more at his website:

theashrose.org

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This episode includes:

  • Ian’s journey from hospice nursing to creating The Ash Rose
  • The inspiration behind transforming ashes into rose-shaped keepsakes
  • How art and creativity can play a role in the grieving process
  • Stories of individuals who have found solace through The Ash Rose
  • The importance of honoring loved ones in unique and personal ways
  • Ian’s perspective on the intersection of grief, beauty, and healing

“Out of the ashes, something beautiful can still grow.”

Ian Mccartor

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If you enjoy this content please share it with others and consider leaving a review on iTunes. Thanks again to all supporters on my page at Patreon.com/eolu, and to Barbara Walker for donating on Paypal! Your contributions make all the difference and ensure this podcast stays ad-free.