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Ep. 567 Grief in the Aftermath of Suicide with Laura Jaye Cramer

Learn how a beautiful magazine about grief was inspired by the devastating loss of two loved ones to suicide.

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About the guest:

My guest Laura Jaye Cramer is the founder of Waiting Room Publishing, an independent media company putting smart, human-centered print magazines into healthcare, senior living, and end-of-life waiting rooms across the United States. Today we share together our experiences with grief after suicide loss and how we are each navigating that journey. We also discuss Candlelight Magazine, which Laura created out of her own grief. The magazine features poetry, articles, art, and photo essays about grief for end-of-life spaces like funeral homes, hospice care, and palliative care. Learn more at her websites:

laurajayecramer.com

waitingroompublishing.com

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In this episode:

  • How Laura’s own grief experience inspired her to create Candlelight Magazine
  • How typical reading material in waiting rooms doesn’t match the needs of grieving people
  • How grief can be like a “waiting room” where we wonder when things will change
  • The overwhelming grief experienced by Laura of two family suicide deaths within 3 months
  • Why many grief groups don’t work well for suicide survivors
  • Feelings of abandonment and betrayal after a suicide loss
  • Talking about suicide may help people find the tools they need to cope
  • The need for a specific community of “grief friends” who understand suicide loss
  • Navigating “before” and “after” versions of yourself following traumatic loss
  • How to subscribe to Candlelight Magazine

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Ep. 559 Healing Grief After Homicide Through After-Death Communication with Jan Canty PhD

Learn about the grief experienced by homicide survivors and how some have found comfort through after-death communication with their loved ones.

About the guest:

My guest Dr. Jan Canty is a psychologist, author, former podcaster, and a homicide survivor. She has written three books related to homicide and grief including her latest book: Rekindled: Healing Grief Through the Science and Experience of After-Death Communication. She shares how she became interested in studying after-death communication through her work supporting homicide survivors, including the scientific basis for these studies. She also discusses The Aftermath Conference: the first-ever national gathering for homicide survivors coming up September 11-13. Learn more at her website:

jancantyphd.com

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In this episode:

  • How Jan became interested in after-death communication through her work with homicide survivors
  • The impact of stigma and taboos about homicide death for survivors
  • Why homicide survivors find after-death communication to be helpful and life-changing
  • How the experience of after-death communication is often pathologized
  • Why reductionistic science can’t fully study something like after-death communication because it can’t be measured
  • How to ask questions about after-death communication
  • Why grief clinicians need to know more about ADC
  • Why these experiences should not be negated or dismissed when patients bring them up
  • Suggestions for people struggling with grief after a homicide death
  • Homicide deaths are usually complicated by the presence of law enforcement and the media
  • Why listening to a homicide survivor is what is needed rather than saying the “right thing”
  • Why Jan is planning a national gathering for homicide survivors and their supporters

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