Learn how to better serve the needs of the LGBTQ+ community in grief and at the end of life.

My guest Jamie Thrower is a queer death doula, end-of-life educator and community grief tender serving the LGBTQ+ community in life and in death. She is the founder of Queer Grief Club and the co-creator of The Dementia Deck. We discuss how to offer more inclusive services in our end-of-life care and grief support spaces. Learn more at Jamie’s website:
This episode includes:
- Jamie’s story of becoming parentless at age 28
- How she discovered that grief connected her to others in a beautiful way
- Why children need to be involved in death and funerals
- The many layers of grief experienced by a queer person
- How our systems need to change to become more inclusive
- What we can do as individuals to make our care more welcoming to the queer community
- Hidden bias in our paperwork and forms for people in the LGBTQ+ community
- The importance of advance directives for queer people
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